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Sholio ([personal profile] sholio) wrote2012-03-24 07:46 am

A comment on the ending of last night's Fringe

I gotta say that, while the episode certainly had fun bits, the ending basically encapsulated everything I hate about the "true love trumps all other considerations" theme that runs through a lot of JJ Abrams' shows (and media in general). Olivia is, in essence, giving up all the other important relationships in her life for Peter -- and this is when she's only been together with him for a few months in the original reality; I think it would feel less imbalanced to me if it was, say, a 20-year marriage, but a relationship of a year or so in which they spent a lot of that time fighting? Er ... yay? Anyway, that whole dynamic (Olivia gives up everything else that's important in her life for ~true love~) mashed down my DO NOT WANT buttons hard.

It wasn't quite as 100% do-not-wanty as it might otherwise be because it isn't strictly an either-or proposition, and Olivia knows it -- her alt-self has close relationships with some of her other friends too (Walter and Astrid, for example), so she won't have to rebuild everything from scratch. And the Observer's "love brought you back" comment to Peter was clearly not referring only to Olivia, but referencing Walter as well. So it's not absolutely, 100% "romantic love is the only important thing in the world!" But it was damned close, uncomfortably close for me, especially since the memory trade that Olivia is making will basically cost her the shared history that she has with everyone else in the world besides Peter -- all the little in-jokes, the memories of missions with the others, any and all differences between this timeline and ours ... if the memory replacement becomes complete (which I hope it doesn't, but the decision she made is based on the assumption that it might), she won't remember any of that. Our memories make us who we are, and it feels like Olivia is basically giving up not only all the other relationships in her life (either severing them, or changing them irrevocably) but also giving up her self to be with Peter. And, even though it's a decision no one is forcing her into, the fact that canon set it up so that this was her decision is something that leaves me tremendously uncomfortable.
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[personal profile] elegantpi 2012-03-24 09:03 pm (UTC)(link)
I felt much the same way about it! It smacks of the erasure of a person's identity for love, or the illusion of love. Memories are the foundation of identity, and... I don't know, I felt it was a bit cruel of Olivia to say to Nina that she'd rather forget her and be in love with Peter rather than be the person she became with Nina in her life... That somehow the "other" Olivia was better because she could... What? Fall in love a little easier? I felt like kicking things at the end of the episode.

So... Did the alt timeline with Peter's son just get erased?
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[personal profile] monanotlisa 2012-03-25 08:03 pm (UTC)(link)
I felt much the same way about it! It smacks of the erasure of a person's identity for love, or the illusion of love. Memories are the foundation of identity

This, absolutely.

For what it's worth, the show makes it semi-explicit Olivia was aware of this; she just didn't intellectually care because she was emotionally tied up.

it was a bit cruel of Olivia to say to Nina that she'd rather forget her and be in love with Peter rather than be the person she became with Nina in her life... That somehow the "other" Olivia was better because she could... What? Fall in love a little easier?

Ridiculous. Have outlined my stunned reaction elsewhere in teh internets tonight already, but I hear you on yours.

So... Did the alt timeline with Peter's son just get erased?

I think that one's been dead and gone all along, but yes, obviously now there won't be any erasing of the Amber!verse. Which is something. Sigh.
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[personal profile] monanotlisa 2012-03-25 08:22 pm (UTC)(link)
the ending basically encapsulated everything I hate about the "true love trumps all other considerations" theme that runs through a lot of JJ Abrams' shows (and media in general).

Exactly.

Olivia is, in essence, giving up all the other important relationships in her life for Peter -- and this is when she's only been together with him for a few months in the original reality

Especially as this was framed as "Olivia chooses this freely" when this makes no rational sense in light of Olivia Dunham's characterisation over the course of the seasons. It'd of course be perfectly, intrinsically sensible if the show had made it clear she was already too-far gone, an oldly mildly turquoise Blue, if you will?

that whole dynamic (Olivia gives up everything else that's important in her life for ~true love~) mashed down my DO NOT WANT buttons hard

Mine as well.

I had, I guess, as the best worst-case scenario, expected an Olivia between memories, stabilised, and then falling back in love with Peter over the rest of these episodes. The choice of Peter (versus Lincoln, sigh) would've made more sense then -- if perhaps not to me -- they have saved worlds together, and were partners of a sort for three years, not three months.

Then again, overall, just to clarify, I'm not watching this show for romance. I loved Fringe for 3 1/2 seasons without Olivia in a romantic relationship, watching this for a kick-ass heroine and the cases, not romance -- Olivia's and Peter's relationship not as a lovely background factor but as the actual story as such hasn't sat well with me since Season Three, and feels worse now.

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[personal profile] monanotlisa 2012-03-25 09:08 pm (UTC)(link)
No, you're right; free she is. Just weird. Sigh.
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[personal profile] auburn 2012-03-25 09:28 pm (UTC)(link)
It's a relief to know that it's not just my cynical self having a visceral rejection of the whole idea behind the last episode. Letting blue Olivia's memories take over with the real possibility they'll overwrite hers comes across as a kind of suicide. If they'd established this timeline's Olivia as emotionally wounded/miserable/utterly isolated/recklessly suicidal, then I could accept it a little easier, but she's been shown as balanced, with friendships. Giving up you entire self for love? The idea makes me shudder.

Of course, I'm not as invested in Fringe as I've been with other fandoms - once burned, always Abrams shy - so I don't exactly feel betrayed by the writing. It's disappointing. Shows very often are. I'm holding on to a couple possibilities for the moment. There's no saying that September told Peter the truth; the rest of the Observers and September might disagree on methodology, but they're united in that their efforts are all about stabilizing a timeline that results in their future. Plus, there's a chance something will happen to obviate the amber timeline and fork off another one or that the memories won't completely overtake the amber Olivia.

I'm thinking now of the Observer telling Olivia she had to die. I suppose getting your memories over written to become a different timeline version would qualify in my book just as much as taking a bullet.

Mostly, though, I'm annoyed in a selfish way. Now I have to either factor this into my ridiculous crossover story or set it before this episode.
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[personal profile] auburn 2012-03-25 11:29 pm (UTC)(link)
A Type A fandom... that really describes it for me. Thanks, I'll keep that description in mind.

You know what would have been more interesting than the woman gives up all for romantic love plot line? If they'd reversed it and had Peter be the one losing his memories and having to choose whether to integrate into the new universe, sans himself in a sense, or go the way of the rest of his timeline and not be at all.

Or even if they'd had her making the choice but him rejecting her sacrifice of self, which is where the last episode seemed to be heading and which I liked. Be the better man - that's a good message. Give yourself up for a man - effing bad message.

You know, sometimes it's better if I don't think about episodes very much beyond watching them. At least for my blood pressure.
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[personal profile] dossier 2012-03-26 01:33 pm (UTC)(link)
I am still withholding judgment. Nina as Olivia's substitute Mom creeped me out, and while she might be seemingly rejecting her entire life as it is, she is also rejecting a life that was never meant to be, except for manipulation. The thing that I like about Fringe is that the consequences of decisions are explored in many layers. Or has in the past. I enjoy Fringe, but not enough to get invested. I gave up on Lost just about season 4, so I am prepared to bail... soonish