Enemies to lovers

[sholio]

I ended up nominating a few things for Enemies to Lovers (hush, I'm using it as a bribe for finishing my other assignments xD) and this made me spend some time thinking about which of my ships actually qualify - I had some trouble coming up with a third fandom, and trying to figure out where exactly I'd draw the line. (Like, I wouldn't call Sam/Bucky E2L - more like people who mildly antagonize each other to friends/lovers. But some might!)

So I got to wondering how other people define it. I selected check boxes since some people might have more than one answer. I mean, *I'm* not even sure where I fall in all of this!

Poll #33342

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How would you define Enemies to Lovers? (or Enemies to Friends, if you're not a shipper)

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Must try to kill each other (or at least want to), or be on opposite sides of a conflict with life-or-death stakes
20 (34.5%)

Rivalries like sports rivalries are fine, but there needs to be a strong personal element and/or unhealthy fixation on each other (not just regular sports team conflict)
26 (44.8%)

Any kind of rivalry or antagonism will do
12 (20.7%)

For me it's about the Vibe™ - from distrust/antagonism to trust, whatever form that takes
26 (44.8%)

I do not accept it as proper E2L if there's any softening at all - they must remain antagonists
0 (0.0%)

I know it when I see it but don't get too fussed about definitions
9 (15.5%)

My thoughts are too complex for your ticky boxes (answer in comments)
1 (1.7%)

Not my trope so I don't care, but I want to click something.
3 (5.2%)

Comments

[snickfic]

Are you the one who nominated Carol/Yon-Rogg? I was *eyes emoji* at that. Alas, I don't think I have enough qualifying ships to count, either. (And definitely don't need to sign up for another exchange when I'm already considering doing FIAB again...)

[sholio]

Yes, that was me! I was sitting there going "I KNOW I have MORE...." and then "OH WAIT." I would love to have a chance to write about them again; it's been so long!

(But yeah, it is hard to come up with a full slate of signups for some of the more specific exchanges. Also, Too Many Exchanges is definitely a problem.)

[silverflight8]

It's suuuuuch a good ship