Given my fun and games yesterday, I've found your Lurkers post incredibly helpful today. While I'm not upset about that incident specifically any more, it has made me retreat and think I won't post much until I get my legs back under me. So I'm back to Lurker, and that's *fine* :)

Tumblr has gone so far beyond what its original creators had in mind (I listen to one of them on a podcast, so...yeah. Way beyond) that the functionality is weirdly bolted on. They've come a long way, but it still feels like everyone's not quite got the hang of it.