I think new xkit might let you mute notifications from a single post? I've never had the problem ;), so I don't know for sure.

I think you made some good points both in the original post (which I reblogged) and in your additional comments, but what I really liked about it was the pushback against all those scolding "You must leave feedback!" posts that have been circulating on Tumblr lately. They just make me so uncomfortable because nobody owes anybody anything! (Except obviously in the case of a gift exchange, where it's polite and expected to say thank you for a gift.) Expecting and demanding that kind of response - basing your fannish engagement on it in some posts I've seen! - just really rubs me the wrong way.